After going out with some friends the other night and talking alot about men and dating (one is starting in on the dating scene, after many years off of it). We had great discussions about it all. At one point, I was asked "How do you do it?" How do I do what? Turns out, how do I date and get to know so many guys. Well. firstly, I dont "date" I don't like the ideaology and expectations and whole idea of it. So I don't use that term. Kind of teh same reason I don't like valentines day...
anyway, my top 3 points of advice were:
1) be open, honest, and upfront
2) remember there are alot of great almosts out there.
3) have no expectations. without expectations you can't be disappointed.( however remember expectations and standards are 2 different things.)
without
so i'm going to elaborate on the 3rd point. Expecations vs. Standards. This being....
Expectation:
- the act or state of looking forward or anticipating
-something expected
(expected: to suppose, surmise, guess. To look forward to, to regard as likely to happen.)
ooops. computer battery is dieing. I will have to finish this later! lol
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